As we go through life, we grow and change. There are times where we love the person we are, and there are also times where we reflect and don't like the person we have become. We strive to recognise our flaws and improve on ourselves. There may come a time when you decide you need a major overhaul (I know I have). Old habits don't serve you anymore and hold you back, and sometimes you need to do 'something' to really embed this change, and establish the 'New You'. Below is a ritual I wrote to mark a New You; a rite to say goodbye to the old and welcome in the new. By derivative work: ForrestjunkyCandle-flame-and-reflection.jpg: Richard W.M. Jones - Candle-flame-and-reflection.jpg, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=4882393 Tools: - White candle - Three strands of cord that represent three things that you wish to focus on as your new self: for example, purple for spirituality, pink for self love, etc. *Note: This